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I “Feel” Great about Obama

This article by Abe Katsman in the Jerusalem Post has caused a bit of a stir among the anti-Obama crowd and Republicans.

It provides a stinging opinion of the warm and fuzzy feeling Obama is creating among voters…and it also touches on some of the reasons we are planning on homeschooling.

“Obama has tapped into is the first generation educated in schools focused on “self-esteem.” Now, the products of self-esteem education have come of political age in substantial numbers, perhaps with profound implications for this and future elections.

For the past two decades, America’s educational establishment has stressed the inculcation of self-esteem as the supreme educational goal. Self-respect – the product of struggle and achievement – is out; self-esteem – the entitlement to feel great self-worth regardless of actual accomplishment – is in.

Strict correction of misspelling or of wrong answers to math problems is discouraged. Competition is a big no-no: many youth sports leagues forbid keeping score, lest any child’s self-esteem suffer from the indignity of losing. Posting honor rolls is discouraged, as it might injure the self-esteem of those who did not make the grade.

Grade inflation is rampant in schools: according to one recent study, about half of today’s college freshman had an “A” average in high school compared to under 20% in the late 1960s, even though SAT scores have tanked over the same period. The focus on self-esteem has, in a sense, been a huge success.

For example, American students have very high scores when asked to assess how good they are at math. Unfortunately, they have low/mediocre scores in actual math performance, routinely being outscored by students in most other developed countries.

Inevitably, however, such over-indulgence of students leads to increased narcissism, self-absorption, and sense of entitlement. Those with self-esteem disproportionate to their achievement tend to be less willing to take responsibility for their own failures, shortcomings, or bad behavior.

Coddled children raised to believe that any dream is not only attainable, but an entitlement granted regardless of actual effort and accomplishment are increasingly growing into depressed and stressed young adults as they rudely discover that the post-school world is not so cooperative and doesn’t really care about their dreams or their feelings. In the real world, they keep score.

  • Brent
    Let's see if I understand the author's logic:

    1. Voters under 30 are for Obama
    2. Voters under 30 have been taught self-esteem instead of self respect
    3. Teaching self-esteem instead of self-respect is wrong.

    Therefore, under 30 voters are wrong and so is Obama.

    I must admit, I missed a few logic classes, but this sounds like an argument by weak analogy.

    Shawn, can I have my logic book back?
  • If there is smoke, there is fire. There is not fire, so there is no smoke.

    Same logic as:
    If there is Obama, then there is hope/change, if there is no hope/change, then there is no Obama.

    Modus Tollens.
  • Micah
    The greater issue is, I think, if you are a Christian. First, the author says that in the real world, people keep score. The church's witness is, though, that the kingdom of God is the real world. I'm curious what kind of score it is that God keeps in the real world. What it is we are communicating when we obsess over the need for our kids to compete? And against whom do home-schooled kids compete?
    By the way, I'm not a voter, but I am a late-gen-Xer, which is truly the first self-esteem generation out there. In my 4th grade class, we sat in rows according to our performance in the class, and I generally had the first seat. Extremely competitive, and if you failed a quiz you had to copy a dictionary page by hand. By the author's (highly) flawed logic, I should be able to be the most self-respecting person out there. Of course, this character development based on competition, score and accomplishment didn't stop me from "scoring" a 1.7 my first semester of college, and "losing" my "competitively won" full tuition scholarship. I suspect that self-esteem vs. self-respect is hardly so simplistic as this person would have us believe.
  • Besides an Obama rally....
    Where do you get:
    1. God
    2. Christian ethics
    3. Homeschooling
    4. Obama

    KTOWNLOWDOWN baby!
  • David
    I love Obama. I skipped church to go to an Obama rally; I had a cold.

    I was memorized and healed at the same time. I reached out and touch his hand. I said, "obama, heal me". He replied, "who just touched me". I said, "it is I".

    Seriously, great politician. However, It's like running for class president at UH; can one REALLY change Washington County's lunch food program? My favorite was Brandon (forgot last name) , Class of 1990 who stated, "I'm not asking for a better lunch menu only sharper tools to kill it with".
  • Watching an Obama rally is similar to watching some of the preachers I've sat under. He's got charisma and an ability to 'touch' his listeners. I'd vote for him over Hillary any day of the week, even on Sunday!
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