You never know what you are going to find when you search the Keywords on your Google Analytics page, but I was a little surprised to find the phrase “Cornerstone Church Knoxville Cult” not once but several times in KTOWN’s keyword cache.

My first reaction was, “Ha. That’s funny.”

But then it struck me, that for some reason or reasons, this is exactly what people think or have heard about that church. You see, when people punch in words into a search engine, they are usually very efficient with their word choices. That’s the whole point of keywords and search engine optimization (SEO).

But back to the “cult”. I started thinking, “Why would some folks associate this church with a cult-like status?”

Then it hit me…

1 Corinthians 1:27-28

But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are,

That church seems foolish to people…probably even other Christians. But why?

You could chalk it up to theological differences and debate whether that church is practicing certain doctrines in a certain way, but that’s pretty typical with any various denominations. And all that info is available on their website (see Statement of Faith). No secrecy there.

I mean as an evangelical Christian myself and a member of Cornerstone, I have vastly different doctrinal opinions of say… the Catholic Church, the United Methodist Church, or even the Church of God…but I would label these different denominations…just that…denominations….not cults.

So why would “cult” show up in the keywords. Most likely it’s what these people have heard and seen about the lives of the church members, not so much the specifics of the doctrine…and here is a list of the things my family loves about the church, that when the non-Christian or even worldly Christian encounter may make them think…”Oh, that’s a cult.”

  1. They don’t have a youth group. The parents of the youths actually lead them in different group activities. Parental involvement. It used to be called “Family Time.”
  2. Large families. Four or more children in a family is considered nothing unusual.
  3. Stay at home moms. Lots of these. And we are talking about college educated, highly skilled stay at home moms.
  4. The discouragement of dating and the encouragement of courtship. This one really freaks people out.
  5. The practice of church discipline. It’s in the Bible and Cornerstone does not ignore it.
  6. The “near mandate” of a husband to romantically pursue and serve his wife. The only dating that the church encourages is within the bonds of marriage…a husband “dating” his wife, and believe me it is one of the best ways to protect and serve your marriage.
  7. College students that are selflessly serving the church. VFC is different from the most student groups…and I am sure that other college students think they are weird.
  8. Women teach and train other women in modesty. This is definitely foolishness from a worldly perspective.
  9. Celebrating the God designed roles of men and women. The church realizes that men and women are different…designed for different roles and tasks and they aren’t afraid to teach and preach that.
  10. Sincerity. The people of that church genuinely love each other. And I am not saying they like going to church on Sundays to see or be seen. I am saying that they get involved in other members’ lives. The moms get together for play dates with the kids, the college kids serve other families, men meet for accountability, and the care group leaders “get up in your business”…all in order to serve and encourage one another.

So I guess I understand why people would use the word “cult” in searching for information about Cornerstone Church of Knoxville…if “cult” means not worldly, but my guess is that if that person digs a bit deeper, he or she will find out there’s nothing cult-ish about Cornerstone Church of Knoxville (everything the church believes can be found at their website and by speaking to any member or pastor), but just a group of believers that are acknowledging the sovereign grace of God under which we live.

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This entry was posted on Friday, May 9th, 2008 at 9:46 am.
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    Many of our family members expressed concern about Cornerstone when we first started going there, mainly because, to them, anything not affiliated with a major denomination is risky. Once they read the doctrine and heard the teaching, they gladly blessed our decision.

    And, Aaron and I can say with certainty that
    Cornerstone is not a cult because we disagree with a couple of the points you mentioned (we only have 3 kids and are stopping at that, Lord willing, I work part-time, we will probably let our kids date--with guidelines, etc...) and our friends and the leadership of the church have made it clear that those things are not what the church is centered around. Cornerstone is completely Gospel-centered while cults are usually centered around practices and ideas other than the Gospel. I thank God for Cornerstone every day!!!
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    I absolutely agree, the above points are not what that church is focused on...CCK is centered on the Gospel....
    the point was just that those are some things that may jump out as "odd" to the non-member
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    Yeah Shawn,

    You hit the nail on the head when you said that other college students, and even some campus ministries think that VFC is weird.

    But, I love to look like a fool for Christ's sake. The gospel is being proclaimed in CCK and VFC, and as long as that keeps happening, there WILL be opposition and persecution. It's a given!

    Thanks for your post, it was insightful.

    All for Jesus!
    -CH
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    I went there for almost a year and only had 2 people introduce themselves. Of course, I don't fit in to their description of a perfect member...I'm a single mom, and I work full-time! OMG...don't everyone freak-out because you think I'm going to hell! BTW-I'm not!

    They sure didn't show any "love" to me...I went there so that my daughter would have a place to go on the the weekends she was with me. She enjoyed her class, but I doubt the other 5 year olds judge her like the adults do!

    The leaders of this church want women to stay home and pop-out babies. Thinking like that is so sad to me! Open your eyes Cornerstone, all women weren't created to do that, and all men weren't created to make $200,000 a year so his wife can stay home!

    Please!
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    ALK...I am truly sorry to hear that you had that experience. But the reason for the post was not to offend or to judge... just to explain some things that might be a bit 'different'.
    I would obviously disagree with your last statement...the leaders of the church want to equip the members of the church with the Gospel...that's it...and encourage believers regardless of gender, but they don't shy away from what the Bible says on the roles of men and women, and this is offensive to a lot of folks. Believe me I understand where you are coming from.

    And I can speak for many of the men in that church, a wife that stays home is a sign of sacrifice not of privilege....especially when you don't even make $40K.
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    Do the men "train" each other to be modest too? Or is modesty a gender specific attribute?
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    "Modesty" in this context is applied to the specific way a person may dress.

    Women are encouraged (especially by other women) to make sure that their "dress" is appropriate. Unfortunately, the simple fact is that the church has to work at not being like the world, and in American society, the less a girl wears, the higher she is held in regard. CCK strives to oppose this trend.

    Modesty and humility (in general) are obviously not gender specific.
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    lol at the “Cornerstone Church Knoxville Cult" phase. I do SEO on a lot of sites, and I'm always finding some weird phrase people find my sites from. Many times its not really related to my site.
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    Very interesting.

    Our church often gets the same label. Probably for many of the same reasons. We're very similar, except that we do have a youth group, but the parents are involved a lot. We do a lot of family oriented things. Our adult Sunday school class is small because most of the adults are actively involved in teaching the children. We have a lot of stay home and/or homeschooling moms. Most families have at least 3 or 4 children. One has nine. :) Also, numbers 4,5,6, and 7. Definitely #8. Our women meet every month to practice Titus 2 - we're very big on things like modesty and submission, which I'm sure doesn't help. :) The fact that we're a reformed church doesn't help either. Still.. given all that. I still can't figure out why people use the word "cult." It brings up such obvious connotations. Things like, locking yourselves into a compound away from the rest of the world. Which obviously, neither one our churches do.
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    Actually, you could probably check out websites such as SGMRefuge.com and SGMSurvivors.com if you really want to find out why that particular search may be more popular in the months ahead.

    Hint: the true reasons have very little to do with your list.
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    wow. let it go.
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    Talk about googling...I google sovereign grace ministries and cult and hit your page. And I noticed your link to sovereign grace ministries, plus reading the description of oyur church, means you are a member of an SGM church.

    So I would have to agree with the many who are asking if your church is a cult - yes, it likely is, as SGM is an authoritarian franchise "ministry" and the secret is now out after over 20 years. People are all over the internet telling their stories of spiritual abuse at the hands of SGM leadership in churchs ALL OVER the USA. What is scary is that all the stories are alike - hence my claim that SGM is a franchise.

    Don't be afraid to look into the websites and blogs exposing SGM for what it is: a cult some say (as I do) others just say it is very dangerous, the shepherding going on. This movement began back in the 70's and CJ was involved then too. The first site that blew the lid off was www.sgmsurvivors.com but since then others have cropped up like www.sgmrefuge.com and www.spiritualtyranny.com these are REAL people with real stories that can't be ignored. They are all alike. And until Nov of last year no one knew why they had struggled at their SGM church.

    God is exposing things to the light, The truth will come out.
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    Unfortuantly, the SGM survivors site gets off onto so many tangents of offense that the real issues are buried. ----And, there are real issues-----.like Travis said. I'd like to be able to recommend the site to people who are thinking of joining a SGM church, but I just can't.

    Proverbs 10:19
    "When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise."

    And I'm not saying to hold the tongue about everything, but to be very careful in what you say. Use God's Word as your guide. Lot's less of, "just say'in".
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    My wife and I (And 4-6 other families, including the former worship leader) left a SG Church less than a year ago, after seven years. We were a part of starting the church, were in leadership as Care Group Leaders, and served in other areas of service leadership. Our experience is similar to what I have been reading here and in other blogs. The leadership structure was sinfully authoritarian and controlling. We first noticed this when several families (friends) abruptly left years before we did. I was at that time stunned that anyone would leave what I considered to be the perfect church, so I reached out to these families to better understand what they were going through. The pastor was extremely irritated that I had the audacity to go and talk with these former members without permission. Other members asked me if I had gotten the pastor’s permission before I went and talked to them. At first I didn’t understand and just felt like, “What do you mean ‘permission’?” It turns out that the families all left in response to the control and abuse they experienced, though I didn’t understand what they were talking about at the time and I guess I blamed them. Our story began when my wife and I initiated a friendly meeting with our pastor/friend about what seemed to us to be a subtle shift in the church away from grace and toward legalism (The sermons, Care Group themes, etc.) It seemed like we were beginning to “drop the ball,” to quote CJ, when it came to the gospel. Well, we left the meeting 3-hours later, feeling well corrected, as the pastor and assistant pastor tag teamed us. This started a series of forced meetings with the pastors, over the course of a year or more, where our hearts were examined and we were denied attendance at the care group of our choice and warned to not talk to others about anything. Eventually, I was told that I could not count the offering anymore (I was the lead guy), then could not be on the Greeting Team, and finally, we were told we could not attend Care Group at all. Many people were shocked, but assumed the pastors knew what they were doing so didn’t ask questions. It was at this time that sermons from the pulpit were about, “protecting your pastors,” and “submitting to their authority and making it a joy to lead you.” I was determined to stay with my church family, His Body, and not succumb to the bullying by the pastors, but after receiving an absurd e-mail with accusations from the pastor, and feeling somewhat shunned by some others, we decided to leave peacefully to avoid a fight. I am concerned that this is not a local problem, but SGM-wide. I am sure that our pastors’ behavior was either condoned or overlooked by the regional SGM leadership team here. I think I will post this in other blogs as this is the first time I have summarized our experience.
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    My website has another view on SGM's views and practices on courtship.

    Unfortunately Josh Harris left a lot out when he wrote his book on "kissing dating goodbye." The church he is now senior pastor at had multiple problems with Harris's "solution." Why weren't these problems presented in Harris's book

    Why hasn't Harris publicized the problems he noticed with how singles related at his church on his website?

    When I see this practiced I wonder what else is askew in Sovereign Grace Ministries including the Knoxville Church.

    www.ikdg.wordpress.com
    I Kissed Dating Goodbye: Wisdom or Foolishness?
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    I was trying to "share the link love" when I left a post here yesterday. Did I offend you or did it get lost in the blogosphere?
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    I decided that your reference at the end of the post was not appropriate for this blog. I don't not like to edit comments (other than spelling errors) so I would rather not post your comment than be accused of changing your words.

    Please feel free to resubmit without such inappropriate comparisons.
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    Glad to see your site about this is up and running again. I admire your freedom in hearing others' viewpoints, even if they differ from your own. I mean that...it takes guts to let others air their views on your own blog and not have any fear or desire to "control" things...if you are able to remain in an SGM church and not become legalistic or spiritually abused, then by all means do so, and help others who are unable to not become legalistic and in bondage.

    I think there are many in SGM churches who are not in bondage to the extent I was, or those on the other blogs. But, the spiritual abuse IS real, and it CAN happen, if you are not careful. So if you are free, then please keep an eye out for others...thanks for your blog!